I really was so broken over Tamlin's actions and Feyre's hatred for him. In the first book, i adored them together. I don't ship them now because Feyre DOES deserve better than him and because i prefer Feysand, but i can't help but wish that Feyre will eventually forgive and understand him. Many people don't see it, but Tamlin was as broken as Feyre and Rhys. In the words of Rhysand, "We're all broken... In our own ways - in places no one might see." He has gone through many traumatic things and people choose to ignore them. In ACOWAR, he started to redeem himself bit by bit. When Feyre was trying to escape from Hybern's camp, he saved her and Azriel's life in a way that easily could've ended his own, as well as blowing his cover. He wished Feyre happiness even though it wasn't with him. He has come to accept that now. Despite everything, even after Feyre destroyed his ties to most of his sentries, he still came back with all his forces to fight for the greater good. Without him, Rhys wouldn't be alive right now. Tamlin could've chosen to let him die, but he brought him back because all he's ever wanted was Feyre to be happy. It really is a shame to see all the hate he receives, i hope he continues to redeem himself to the point where maybe one day, there will be at least a few people who don't want to murder him. I know that he has done a lot of terrible things, but i could never hate Tam. Feylin was beautiful to me while it lasted, but Feysand now reigns.