I would have to agree with both of you on this one. I have mixed feeling about her. On one hand, she has been through a lot, and there are quite a few instances where we see the better parts of her, like when we find out that she tried to go after Feyre to Prythian. On the other hand, her actions towards the people she cares about are getting a bit out of hand. She even managed to push Amren and Elain away. I wish she would let them help her, and help herself, too.