I prefer Feysand because they are mates but Feyre and Tamlin are not mates

Sorry, but I thought Feysand was superior to Feylin as Tamlin ruined Feylin and to be honest, I was kinda bored with Feylin and Tamlin's cruelty finished it off for me.

Feysand was the best relationship in the book series, by far. Tamlin was overprotective, but he does let Feyre be happy in A Court of Wings and Ruin at least.

I didn't enjoy Feylin; from the beginning it seemed stereotypically fairytale & (gradually) so unhealthy. Feysand def pulled me more into the story on the whole. I do think both relationships were vital for every character involved, though. I think Feyre needed the experiences she had w Tamlin just as much as she needed to find Rhysand & finally step into a relationship that was healthy & loving. I'm also supremely relieved that Maas didn't just offer up a bandaid for Feylin but that you do see a lot of growth for both Feyre & Tamlin bc of how things went between the two of them. It's a slower process for Tamlin but you do see that he has some good there when his anger & ignorance stop eclipsing it. I think it's just a matter of him needing someone to stoke that for him; he was too naive and entrenched in his own person to really see Feyre as anything more than a possession that was his to mold.

I think Feysand was by far the best relationship ever... like Tamlin was not the one. i do believe everything happens for a reason but i think Tamlin didn't accept all of feyre... if your gonna love someone you don't get to choose which parts you love "dorian". and i think feyre changed like all people change and tamlin didn't accept it and that is what made me dislike Tamlin so much.. but also seeing feyre slowly fall apart and tamlin had no idea (how idiotic)

tbh Feysand is probably one of the best relationships in the series. I love them so much, even if they were not mates. Feylin was not a very healthy relationship and later on Feyre sees that. She was a lot better with Rhysand, and he loves her, and lets her make her own decisions, unlike Tamlin.

Honestly, I always preferred Feysand over Feylin because of how toxic the relationship Feyre and Tamlin had was. Tamlin was controlling, believing Feyre to be nothing more than a possession that he owned and that she had no opinion, which is such a horrible thing. Of course he meant well, but he didn't see Feyre for who she was. Rhysand was always meant for her, even if it did break my heart to see the ship crash and burn.

But let's be honest, here. Both of them are Territorial Fae Bastards (points to whoever gets that.)

I really was so broken over Tamlin's actions and Feyre's hatred for him. In the first book, i adored them together. I don't ship them now because Feyre DOES deserve better than him and because i prefer Feysand, but i can't help but wish that Feyre will eventually forgive and understand him. Many people don't see it, but Tamlin was as broken as Feyre and Rhys. In the words of Rhysand, "We're all broken... In our own ways - in places no one might see." He has gone through many traumatic things and people choose to ignore them. In ACOWAR, he started to redeem himself bit by bit. When Feyre was trying to escape from Hybern's camp, he saved her and Azriel's life in a way that easily could've ended his own, as well as blowing his cover. He wished Feyre happiness even though it wasn't with him. He has come to accept that now. Despite everything, even after Feyre destroyed his ties to most of his sentries, he still came back with all his forces to fight for the greater good. Without him, Rhys wouldn't be alive right now. Tamlin could've chosen to let him die, but he brought him back because all he's ever wanted was Feyre to be happy. It really is a shame to see all the hate he receives, i hope he continues to redeem himself to the point where maybe one day, there will be at least a few people who don't want to murder him. I know that he has done a lot of terrible things, but i could never hate Tam. Feylin was beautiful to me while it lasted, but Feysand now reigns.

I thought Feylin was a great ship until Feyre became immortal. I think when she was human Tamlin was focused on keeping her happy. But after she was immortal, he realized how hard it would be to keep her happy for hundreds of years. But Rhysand ignored that because he knew if Feyre was happy, he was happy. He did not want to keep her trapped, not for fear of losing her like Tamlin does in ACOWAR. Rhysand wants Feyre to be free because he loves her.

Feysand is the greatest couple of all time